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If you have been trying to apply the law of attraction to change something in your life, but not getting the results that you want, your subconscious programming has probably been getting in the way.

Your mind is made up of two parts – your conscious mind which is basically everything that you are aware of (what we think of as the reasoning, thinking mind), and your subconscious which is all the mental activity that is below or out of conscious awareness (which includes memories, beliefs, values, emotions, intuition and all the automatic processes in the body that we are not consciously aware of like breathing, digestion, elimination, contracting and relaxing muscles and so on).

When you are born, your subconscious is like an empty sponge ready to fill up with feedback from your environment and the people around you. From birth until around age eight, a childs subconscious takes on the beliefs and values of the important people in their life parents, older siblings, aunts, uncles, teachers, religious leaders and even television characters that they watch a lot all without any filtering or examination for truth or relevance.

At the same time, the child also continuously makes decisions about the world and their place in it based on what is happening around them which then also become beliefs stored in the subconscious. So, for example, if you were born into a loving household where all your needs were instantly met, your subconscious would likely have formed beliefs that I am loveable, the world is safe and supportive, and I am always provided for.

On the other hand, if you were born into a household where your parents were sometimes stressed and arguing, and your needs were sometimes met and sometimes not met, your subconscious would likely have formed beliefs like I am only loved when (conditional love), the world is scary and not supportive, and I am not provided for or I am only provided for when (eg I am good enough, loveable enough, quiet enough, smart enough etc).

All these early decisions and unquestioning acceptance of others beliefs and values then form the subconscious programming that becomes the filters through which the child, and later adult, see and experience the world. So, if you have a subconscious belief that money is hard to come by, that will be your experience of the world. You will not notice opportunities to bring money in more easily, will not be attracted to, or will be suspicious of jobs that are not hard. You would probably not even notice, and therefore walk straight past, a $100 bill lying on the sidewalk all because your subconscious programming has trained you not to see what doesnt fit into your view of the world.

This happens because of the way that the mind is structured. Whenever you are not using your conscious mind to direct your thoughts, learn something new or handle complex tasks; your subconscious mind automatically takes over, like a faithful servant. As soon as the conscious mind masters a task, for example, driving a car, it hands it over to the subconscious mind who will replay the pattern whenever required, in this case, when traffic and road conditions are safe, we will slip into autopilot and maybe even arrive at our destination without being consciously aware of how we got there, or slip back into conscious awareness at some point in the journey and not be entirely sure where we are until we pass the next familiar landmark. We seamlessly slip between the conscious and subconscious minds hundreds of times a day.

This slipping between conscious and subconscious is also why it can be so difficult to follow through with decisions such starting an exercise program or giving up smoking because as soon as your conscious mind stops focusing on the new goal, your subconscious mind will direct your behaviours back to the old established habits.

While the subconscious is excellent at handling all those tasks we no longer need full conscious awareness for, it is also an excellent multi-tasker, replaying all your old programming on an almost constant loop, in the background, including any disempowering beliefs that are no longer relevant or helpful. Scientists estimate that between 94% to 98% of all thoughts, on average, arise from the subconscious mind and, because of the looping effect, upwards of 90% of the thoughts that you think today will be the same as the thoughts that you had yesterday, and the day before, and the day before, which most likely means that the life that you are creating tomorrow will be exactly the same as today.

This is why people become disappointed when they first start using the law of attraction and dont see immediate results. the law of attraction responds to our vibrations 24/7 and our conscious mind, even with the best intent and a superhuman level of focus would maybe influence only up to 10% of your thoughts and, therefore, vibrations. So, if your subconscious programming supports your law of attraction efforts – you will see results – fast! However, if your subconscious programming is disempowering and not in alignment with your desires, your vibrations in relation to that desire will be working against you and your results will be patchy at best and maybe even non-existent in the short term.

So, if youre not getting the results you want with the law of attraction, dont blame yourself its the way youve been designed. But, before you get ready to give up and say its no good, Ill forever be a slave to my subconscious programming, there are ways to change your subconscious beliefs and there are many ways to do it.

I dont believe that there is any one method that suits everyone were all individuals and what suits one may not suit another. Based on my experiences, however, here are the best ways to change your subconscious programming:

-EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and its more complicated cousin TFT (Thought Field Therapy)
-NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming)
-hypnosis
-Kinesiology and other energy therapies
-meditation stops the mental chatter and allows you to access the subconscious mind
-Visualisation repetition of a powerful image will gradually change subconscious beliefs
-Affirmations expressed in such a way that they do not oppose the existing belief so rather than I am slim which the mind knows is not true, try I am in the process of becoming slim which is far easier for the mind to accept
-Challenging beliefs as they arise through psychological techniques like rational emotive therapy and cognitive behavioural therapy

Experiment with what works best for you and, no matter which technique you choose, persistence will be the key to success.

Consulting a debt reduction law center or a financial expert is one of the first things that people troubled about debt consider to help them come up with a solution to their financial worries. Unfortunately, there still seems to be a lot of consumers who forge deals with these organizations without completely knowing what these law firms can do to help them resolve their debt situation.

The foremost advantage of seeking help for your debt situation is that these settlement firms often present the benefit of a deliberate plan to negotiate a credit balance and give the debtor a chance to make a reduced debt payment to his creditors. Before the negotiation process begins, consumers are often offered a free consultation to identify the program best suited to their situation. A forensic audit is also conducted as part of most firms negotiation process to determine accuracy of the given data in order to promote an effective settlement.

A law firm can also assist you in determining whether resolving your case requires filing for bankruptcy. Lawyers and finance experts realize that premature application for bankruptcy can be damaging to a debtors future finances. This is why a debt reduction law center will often make sure to offer you options like debt negotiation or a loan modification program to eliminate your debt before suggesting last resort options.

Aside from the alternatives that these legal organizations offer you, some of the most effective law centers have already established a relationship with major creditors in the country, making it possible to provide information and awareness when it comes to the process of debt settlement. These kinds of collaborations can also help people avoid companies who employ debt relief schemes related to fraud.

Just as well, working with established debt elimination legal centers not only gives the debtor an increased chance of acquiring more favorable terms, it also ensures that legal representation will be available should an issue arise. Care should be taken in choosing a debt reduction law center or any other debt elimination organization, however. A lot of uncertified and self-proclaimed debt specialists take advantage of the current financial crisis and lure unwitting consumers into scams.

Unfortunately, desperate indebted people can be easily blinded by the grandiose promises made by these fraudulent debt relief firms. Some even go so far as to claim that using their services will have no negative effect on your credit score and that in the end of the negotiation process you will become debt -free individual for a minimal fee, of course.

You can avoid fraud by keeping in mind that a reputable and dependent debt reduction law center will be as transparent with you as possible. All effects and drawbacks will be discussed with you and questions will be invited for discussion to ensure that you know exactly what you are getting into.

Seeking help from a professional debt negotiator can be greatly to your advantage, provided that you stick to the agreed program and you cooperate with your debt reduction law center.

Can you use the law of attraction to get your ex back? I have seen many questions regarding how to get an ex back but this is a really interesting one. Ultimately, the law of attraction does work to bring you what you want, whether you want more wealth, health and happiness.

The question is, why is it that the law of attraction works for some people but not others? How can you effectively use the law of attraction to get your ex back.

In this article, I am going to give you my opinion on how to use it. I may be right or I may be wrong. While I am not an expert when it comes to using the law of attraction for getting ex back, I have indeed use it to achieve other things in life.

I believe that this law will always try to work in your advantage. The first thing to consider is to ask yourself, “Is this relationship worth saving in the first place?” If your ex has really decided to moved on and no longer wants to have anything to do with you, there is really no point in visualizing him/her coming back into your life.

Instead, I would suggest that you ask yourself a few questions. Why is it that I want my ex back? How would I feel if I have the perfect relationship? Answer these questions honestly.

I believe the reasons you want your ex back is because subconciously, you believe that your relationship with your ex is the perfect one. When you are in a perfect relationship, you will obviously be extremely happy.

Therefore, a great way to use the law of attraction is to think about how you will feel once you are in a wonderful relationship. In fact, try to act as if you are now having the best relationship in the world. Something better may happen to you.

If your ex and you are really meant to be together, he/she will be attracted back into your life. If not, you may be surprised to find a much better partner.